Ever find yourself wondering, “Why isn’t this happening for me yet?” Why hasn’t that dream job appeared, or that perfect partner swept me off my feet? Why isn’t my career as exciting and high-paying as those people who post about it online?

I’m no stranger to these questions. They’ve crossed my mind at different points in my life. During moments of doubt and uncertainty about where my path is leading, I often recall a quote by Leslie Odom Jr.: “Patience and timing play a part in your ultimate success, but I found the happiness and consistency I longed for when I decided to build my own table and chairs.”

I used to believe I needed someone else’s help or a lucky break to pursue my lofty dreams. While external support or opportunities can indeed propel us forward, sometimes we must first give ourselves permission to chase our dreams independently. Often, the universe aligns itself to assist us once we take that courageous step.

Jim Carrey’s words resonate deeply with me: “Letting the universe know what you want and working toward it while letting go of how it comes to pass.” It’s about setting intentions and taking action, all while remaining open to unexpected pathways.

So, instead of waiting for a seat at someone else’s table, why not build your own? No reservations needed—just your determination and vision!