“A man who doesn’t take care of his family can’t be rich. I watched The Godfather and missed that whole ish!”

As Sean Carter said, “We all lose when the family feuds!”

It’s a tale as old as time: ego can so easily destroy what is really important due to pride and selfishness. We can spend so much time “watching the curtains”…waiting for the next misunderstanding or feeling on edge…that we miss the caramel that’s right in front of us. We miss the sweetness of a peaceful home because we are too busy being conscious of our own defenses.

The Ego Trap

In life, when we get caught in those loops of frustration, we aren’t just at odds with someone else; we are feuding with our own future peace. For those of us who are deeply sensitive, we feel this in our souls. A cold tone or a distant energy can feel like a crack in the foundation. We think we are protecting ourselves by being stubborn, but we are actually just losing precious time.

Jay-Z had to learn that Michael Corleone’s “common sense” was actually a trap. You can be the leader of your industry and chase every professional goal, but if the home isn’t fed with peace, love, and emotional safety, everything else feels empty.

The Power of Two Healers

The title of this piece asks: What’s better than one healer? How about two?

In any partnership, it is so easy for one person to fall into the role of the only healer…the one trying to fix the mood or keep the peace. But real wealth happens when both people decide to put down the armor.

When two people decide to say Alhamdulillah (All praise is due to God) for what they have, the certainty returns. Our projects, our dreams, and our legacy stop being at risk because the foundation is finally stable.

The 444 Foundation

Today, I’m sitting with my 444 energy. It’s the angel number of protection and building. It’s a reminder that we don’t have to feud to be strong. We are at our most powerful when we are truly present for one another.

No more missing the caramel. No more hurting through the curtains.

All praises due to the Most High for the clarity to see the difference.